by Elizabeth Arthur Do you remember the first fight or angry disagreement you and your partner had? For the first time ever in the relationship, both of you confront each other over a conflict, even though it’s sorted out quickly. …
8 perfect ways to tell someone you love them
Taking the next step from dating into a relationship isn’t always easy, especially if you’re feeling all shy or awkward about it. But sometimes, you may be completely sure that you’re in love even though you may not know how …
Courtship: Alive, Dead Or Napping?
Times are changing, but should we kiss love goodbye? A New York Times article on the death of courtship recently unleashed a huge debate on dating. The piece addressed the hookup culture and how modern technology, such as Facebook and Twitter, are taking the place …
Old Fashioned Dating Rules for the New Year
Want a better dating experience in 2013? Try these old school rules that still apply. Always Look Your Best Attraction is very primal. We’re attracted to “good looks.” That said, you never know when you may meet that special someone …
10 Signs of Flirting in Men and Women
Reading nonverbal cues is an important part of knowing how to flirt and how to recognize flirtatious behavior. These signs of flirting in men and women will help you see who is interested in romance, and who isn’t. Not only …
Still Single? This App Could Be Your New Wingwoman!
Sometimes OkCupid doesn’t cut it, neither does dragging your BFF to one of the most man-magnetizing spots in town, but that doesn’t mean you should give up hope! At the risk of sounding like an iPhone commercial, there’s an app for that — straight …
The Difference between Dating and Courting
by Quentin McCall Dating and courting can be beautiful, rich, learning, and growing experiences. These experiences are a path to helping us find the person we will choose to love. Love is a selfless, unconditional action; not based on anything …
7 ways to make your bedroom experience more exciting
Enticing, thrilling and hot; would you use these words to describe your sex life? If not, then it’s time to take a look at our guide. You’ll soon be enjoying some sumptuous, pillow-biting sex: Go back to school Awkward teenagers, …
3 Tips on Self-Love & Relationship Readiness
By J. Cameron Gantt When it comes to love and relationships, the fabulous Earth Kitt once said “It’s all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self-love …
The New Couple’s Guide To The Holidays
There’s something especially romantic about the idea of spending the holidays with a significant other: the dressing up for parties, the exchanging of thoughtful gifts, the kissing under hanging mistletoe. In theory, it’s like a scene out of a rom-com; …
BLACK COFFEE, NO SUGAR NO CREAM; WHY MEN OF ALL CULTURES LOVE BLACK WOMEN
“Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not built to suit a fashion models size, but when I start to tell them they think I’m telling lies. I say, it’s in the reach of my arms, the span of …
How To Date A Single Parent
by Ruby Binns-Cagney Many of people in today’s society are single parents who find it difficult to enter into the dating world. They have to juggle kids, work, and life in general. Then, there is the issue of finding someone to date that …
8 Things He’ll Love that You Left At His Place
by Charli Penn (ESSENCE) If his home is your home away from home, make it your own and turn him on by “accidentally” leaving behind one of these flirty items. Half the Fun Bring over a two-piece lingerie set, but …
First Date Conversation Tips
by Anthony Macri (YourTang0) You are on your date, sitting in front of your date, you ordered something to drink, and now what? Preparation Before going out on your first date you should write down a few questions you could ask your …
13 Ways To Rediscover Perfect Passion
To be touched is one thing. To feel the passion of a lover’s touch is something else. It means surrendering to the relationship, hungering for love, igniting an inner flame. To feel passion is to experience no pain. But passion is only …
3 Ways To Love Your Husband Better
If he seems to be losing interest, it could be that you haven’t been showing him enough interest. Does it feel like your marriage is slowly unraveling? Do you get the sense that your husband feels disenchanted with your union and is …
Are You Prepared For Married Life?
So, what do you do to prepare for marriage anyway? When you fall in love and spend almost all of your time with your boo you feel like you’re a perfect fit. You know them better than they know themselves…or …
5 Things Men SHOULD Say To Women
Last week I gave you five things men should never say to women. This week I’m here to flip it and tell you five things men should say to women — particularly when you’ve been in a relationship for some time. …
5 Ways to Tell Her I’m Sorry
By Rainier Fulcan Let’s face it, we all make mistakes in our relationships. Sometimes, a simple apology is enough to smooth things out. Other times, it takes a bit more effort to get yourself out of the dog house. If you’ve …
Keep The Kisses Coming! Why Couples Should Never Stop Smooching
Do you remember your first kiss? I received my first peck when I was four years old. I was hiding in the closet with a neighbor during a game of hide-and-go-seek when he planted his ashy-lips on mine. It was …